What If Everything Is Happening Perfectly? A Radical Wake-Up Call to Own Your Life

Speaker 1 So I have a bit of a radical question for you.

Speaker 1 What if everything is happening perfectly? What if everything is happening perfectly? It was a question that was presented to me a long time ago, many, many, many years ago, probably about 13 years ago. Hmm. Who cares about the exact number? The point is, I've been asking the question a long time. And for the last couple of weeks, I've been wanting to post an episode about this, but something hasn't happened. It didn't happen. And now I've had this little bug. But I'm about to get in bed and rest, but I had to record this finally. It's a bit of a channel, channel 13. By the way, I'm

Speaker 1 coming out of the metaphysical closet. Yes, I am, in fact, a modern mystic. I've been channeling my whole life. I've been making myself small because I've been a little bit afraid also of what people would think and feel. But you know what is really cool? The more that I've been me, and the more that I've gotten rid of people who didn't appreciate me, at least didn't make me feel appreciated, the more those that are still in my life seem to appreciate me and see me. Because when we vibrate in an authentic energy for ourselves, we attract the right things. And so I felt like I had

Speaker 1 to channel this message right now of what if everything is happening perfectly? And I realize how radical that might sound. And by the way, I am radical. Here's Rad, my doggy. I have a pillow of Raddy if you're watching the video. I might even post a video of this on Spotify as the first one. We'll see. I'll go with how I feel. But whether you're watching it or you're listening to it, I really want you to consider this question. What if everything is happening perfectly? Master for listener, master for masterful listener. This whole show is about listening masterfully. What does that mean? It means you're listening

Speaker 1 to everything inside of you and outside of you. It essentially is a presence practice. You know, we often go about our days, our lives, and we're distracted. We're running from one place to the next place, we're feeling everything is urgent and that we're always late. And after I've just come out of a time where I spent half of a year handicapped, walking with a cane, two canes at some point, being in a wheelchair, really facing the fact that I might never walk or dance again. You know what I've learned? Slowing down is by far one of the greatest medicines in the world, and we must define

Speaker 1 urgent. Because unless things are actually on fire, they're not urgent. Ask yourself, what does success look like? What does success look like for me today? What does success look like in my relationship? What does success look like for the next hour? And if success to you looks like you are not taking lunch, you're running from one meeting to the next, you're stressed out, and you're complaining about all the craziness in the planet, then best of luck. But I have not met a single human for whom that is success. But I meet a lot of people who are busy blaming the world for their inner turmoil. And

Speaker 1 the thing is, I really, really, with as much love in my heart and as much fierce compassion as I can muster, want to ask you, have you considered that just maybe, just maybe, it's not the world, but it's you. And I really genuinely mean that. You know, because what I've found for myself is that all the times that I was really mad at someone or something, it was really something within myself. And it took many, many, many years. I think probably this year is where it got really solid. 39.

Speaker 1 Where I was like, whoa, I really am the problem.

Speaker 2 But you know what's awesome? You know what's so awesome? Let me tell you what's so cool. What what what? Are you ready? Are you ready? What what?

Speaker 1 If you're the problem, you're also the solution. Yes, yes, you're the solution. So check it out. Thank you for tuning in. I just had to do this quick channel, this quick episode of What If Everything Is Happening Perfectly. I don't know who you are out there, and thank you for listening, whoever you are. But if you are listening to this right now, this is not an accident. There's a million things you could be doing right now. There's a million ways you could be spending your time, but you're choosing to hit play on this podcast in this moment. And by the way, it's 4:31 p.m., January 30th,

Speaker 1 2025. 4 plus 3 plus 1 is 8. 8 is a very deeply sacred spiritual number. And this year is the number 9. 9 is the number of completion. I, as a modern mystic, am also deeply into astrology, numerology, uh, quantum physics, neuroscience. Ah, there's wisdom everywhere, everyone, guys. Come on, there's wisdom everywhere. And I'm the bridge. I'm the bridge between science and spirit, and I do it through storytelling. And I have kept myself small. And I haven't been saying all the things I've wanted to say because I've also been afraid. What will people think? Will I get in trouble? Blah, blah, blah, blah. But guess what?

Speaker 1 Look at the world. It's literally on fire. And unless something in your life is literally on fire, most likely that sense of urgency that you're functioning in is just blasting your nervous system, your parasympathetic nervous system.

Speaker 1 So

Speaker 1 I really hope you start taking deep breaths. And I really want you to consider if you are living in a state of chaos, what if everything is happening perfectly? What if, in order to evolve and step into our next evolution, because we are, there is a new earth here. There are two realities that I see. There is the old reality of a lot of fear and panic and chaos, and there is a new reality of a lot of love and light and connection and community. And I am in that world, but I am still very aware of this other world because I'm a teacher, a guide,

Speaker 1 a coach, a facilitator, and I have so much compassion for people who are suffering because I have spent years of my own life going in and out of cycles of dark suffering that are not for the faint of heart. But I survived them because I was meant to. And I believe I was meant to survive them so I can share these messages, these channels that have come through me my whole life. Half the time, the things that come out of my mouth, I don't know where they came from. They're just coming through me. And I'm done being quiet and keeping myself small because of other people.

Speaker 1 And I really encourage you to stop doing that too. Ask yourself, what if everything is happening perfectly? Could there be a deeper reason behind whatever you're experiencing? And by the way, if you're feeling great and inspired, hell yeah. I hope you'll be encouraged to share this with other people who maybe don't see things as happening perfectly right now. Really, just this question of what if everything is happening perfectly is very radical, but it's important to ask yourself questions that'll make you ponder and think outside of the way you've been pondering and thinking, especially if you're stuck in a shit spiral and your life isn't working well.

Speaker 1 Who are you around? Who are you talking to? Are you talking to a bunch of people who keep asking crappy questions? Why is everything so fucked up? What's wrong with the world? How about what is beautiful in the world? What is something magical today that you can pay attention to? You know why I find magic every day? Because I look for it. I started doing this little thing, uh magic of the day, a year ago or two, where I would just call my parents and go, you want to hear the magic of the day? Cool. I got this really beautiful piece of feedback from someone that

Speaker 1 said I really something I said in a class felt really nice and it made my heart feel good. Oh my God, I just ate the most incredible avocado. It was like the perfect consistency. It wasn't to this or to that, or whatever. I started looking for the little things because they're always there. Everything is always there. I'm seeing my sweet boy Mello right now, my doggie, who only came into my life because the love of my life, Rad, tragically left his body. The idea that there is a reality where I'm without Mello is so weird because it's like I can't imagine my life without him. And

Speaker 1 yet the only reason Mello is here is because Rad isn't. That's the point. Every single absolutely horrible, tragic thing that's happened in my life has led to the most beautiful, amazing, loving thing. I even realized this past week from a reflection from a new friend, mentor, elder in my life, that my name, Svetlana, translates to radiant light. So there I was, missing rad, wondering if like my life could still be rad without rad. And yet I remembered I've always been rad. I've always literally been radiant. I just didn't see that until I did. So I am here to help you wake up to your radiance. That's

Speaker 1 always what I've been doing for 20 years. I rewatch the videos I've been posting for two decades. I've been saying the same shit for 20 years. And it's all about looking inward to discover our own path, our own love, our own journey. I really do believe everything is happening perfectly. I believe that the pus of humanity's wound has to come out, and it does feel very chaotic, just like the times in my life where everything was falling apart felt so chaotic. But after that, through the darkness came a radiant light that is so much deeper than anything else that I experienced before I experienced the darkness,

Speaker 1 because I couldn't even have anything to compare it to. I really want you to consider that if you're well, what can you do to shine your light even more? Because the world needs bright lights right now, right? I believe a lot of us came here specifically to be here during this time where we can usher in a new type of earth, a reality of love and connection and community where people have enough. And there are not bazillionaires on this planet who are greedy. That's done over. Look at the reality. And if you're someone who's, you know, screaming about all of the injustice and politics and the

Speaker 1 climate, I hear you, I feel you, but guess what?

Speaker 1 Is your screaming and your anger and your fear helpful? Or is it just destroying your own nervous system and spreading more fear and chaos? And I say that with love, and I say that with fierce compassion, because there really is love and there is fear. And when we are vibrating in a state of love, and by the way, I'm not into this toxic positivity bullshit, okay? I'm speaking as someone who very much knows what it's like to not be in a state of feeling great all the time, but that's not it. The key is sometimes the most fierce love is what I'm doing right now is

Speaker 1 to say, hey, wake up. Which part of things are you involved in right now? Because when I look outside, I see so much beauty right now. I realize I'm living in my dream home. I see the view that I've always wanted. And I also see a mess in here because I've been kind of under the weather and I haven't even fully unpacked this home, which I think now is a sign that I probably am not supposed to stay here very much longer because I want more space and I'm gonna have more space. And there's always a story that we make up about the situations in our

Speaker 1 life. And I see a lot of victim mentality out there. Well, it's this person, it's this thing, it's this, and yeah, and it's you. It's you, it's you, my darling. You are the problem, but you're also the solution. You're also the solution. I believe we are all a kaleidoscope of humanity in all of us. I believe we are good in our core. I just believe we have been brainwashed with fear our entire lives. We've been pinned against each other. But I'm telling you, 20 years of research into people, people have so much more in common than we think. We are so much more in common. We

Speaker 1 have so much more in common. Most people just want to be loved, to feel like they belong, to feel a sense of purpose and meaning in their life. Literally, everyone. I traveled the world, I've spoken with thousands and thousands and thousands of people. I've seen inside of organizations what makes things work, what doesn't. It always comes down to communication. People make assumptions about each other based on how they look, their political beliefs. Consider the last time you judge someone just based on who they voted for, what they're wearing, even what they've said that you didn't have enough context for. Maybe you saw something on the internet.

Speaker 1 Come on, wake up. What's really real? I guess you get to answer that question. Well, here's what's real for me. What's real for me is I'm very grateful for every single thing that has fallen apart in my life. I'm grateful for every piece of pain because I believe pain is a portal to our power. I'm grateful for everyone who's broken my heart because they've given me a chance to really discover that I am the love of my life. And now that I see that and I feel it and I know it, I'm so excited for the next person that I'm going to love with my whole

Speaker 1 heart because I know they're not the one coming to fix me and save me, and they won't feel that pressure. I just now really believe I deserve that kind of love that I've been giving others and dreaming of, but it took a while, right? Oh man, I really just do believe that that question of what if this is happening for you versus to you? What if everything is happening perfectly? I believe that question is the little seed that we need to maybe here at the right time to just take a step back and consider that maybe, just maybe, the chaos all around is not something we

Speaker 1 need to participate in, but we can choose to participate in the love. I'm looking at Melo right now and he's just laying on the bed. He's so cute. He's not questioning himself, second guessing his words, his choices all the time. He's just in the moment. He's excited about the same thing every single day. He hates when I take out my phone and try to take his photo. He's constantly reminding me to just be here, be in the moment. This is it. All right. So here, this is it. If you're still here, this is your reminder that you've made it through everything that you've made it through.

Speaker 1 And you're awesome. And you can create anything you want. Trust me, I'm a life coach. But really, trust me, I am Svetlana. My name means radiant light. I am the bridge between spirit and science. Okay, it's the same thing. Quantum physics shows that the observer changes what they're observing. That is the essence of manifestation. So if you've been going around talking about how fucked up the world is, that is more of what you're creating energetically. We are all energy. But if you're waking up and you're looking for the good, look for the good in everything. Shout out, Jason Rass. Um, what are you looking for? Because

Speaker 1 if you're looking for the perfection and the love and the faith and the hope and the joy, you will find it. Our brains have a confirmation bias. There's a little neuroscience for you. Pardon me. Literally, our brain will find more of what we're seeking. So if you're seeking a dark, cold, sad world and you believe that's where you live, you do live there. But if you're seeking a beautiful world, a new world, a new earth, that's where you live. And um, what you seek is seeking you, as my dear mentor, poet Rumi says. And I am seeking those who are seeking me, and I am ready

Speaker 1 for those who are ready for me, and everyone else can politely go on and live in their chaos. But I'm not interested in that. I'm interested in the people who are waking up to remember that we all deserve love, joy, peace, health, abundance, and that together by working together with each other, not against each other, we can fight the problems of the world versus each other. Okay, that's the way that conflict becomes productive and life-affirming versus life-diminishing. So, listener, thank you for joining for this channel. And I really encourage you the next time you're in any situation that's surprising, uh challenging to ask yourself, what if

Speaker 1 everything is happening perfectly? And a next follow-up question to that is what would love do? What would love do now? What would compassion do?

Speaker 1 And then answer it. And then try again and try again and try again. Just keep on trying. We're good, humans are good. I think we've been uh conditioned to uh fight against each other and brainwashed with fear for for a long time, but we're waking up to that, and it's about time. So join me in being radical and radiant and embody your light, speak your truth, be mindful of your words. Words are powerful, and do not let anyone else tell you who you are. You know who you are. And if you don't ask yourself, ask yourself, look in the mirror and ask yourself, who am I?

Speaker 1 Who do I want to be? Who would I be proud to be in this reality of everything happening perfectly for me? Because I really believe it is. I do not believe we are victims, but I believe that if we believe we are victims, then we are victims. And so I hope that this encourages you to remember that you are not a victim, that you are a radiant, perfect, very loved human being currently in this body that you're in in this reality, and that you're here for a reason. And if you've been struggling, ask what if everything is happening perfectly, just to consider it, and then keep

Speaker 1 looking, keep digging for the gold, because you will find what you are digging for. What you seek is seeking you, and when you start seeking love and connection, you will find it. And if you've been seeking love and connection and light, then that's probably why this found you as well. So thank you for sharing your time with me. Your homework is to shine your light a bit brighter, and if you feel that little voice inside your head saying, Oh, am I too much? Just notice it and gently say, I'm exactly perfectly on time. I love myself, I forgive myself. What's gonna make today a rad day?

Speaker 1 And then go do that.

Speaker 3 Okay, bye bye.

Speaker 1 See you next time.